6/17/2019

ANGI MORGAN-ANNIVERSARIES ~ MAKE ‘EM SPECIAL


Stories of the Heart- July 17, 2019

In a time when it seems the world is nothing but name-calling, finger-pointing and bad vibes, its refreshing to hear the GOOD that still exists. For that, and these stories shared by some very dear and talented people, I am truly grateful and blessed!

A special reminder by a very special lady! Angi is a spitfire woman with a heart of gold. I am proud to call her friend. Enjoy!

#doesaheartgood

Amanda McIntyre


ANNIVERSARIES ~ MAKE ‘EM SPECIAL
by Angi Morgan
 










Today Tim and I are celebrating our 30th Anniversary. I’ll say ‘thank you’ now to anyone who congratulates us. Why? We’re on a train. It’s something that we’ve both wanted to do for a while.  I have to admit that most years we’re not together on our anniversary. Some years there weren’t any gifts or even cards exchanged.

THIS milestone event though…we’ve given ourselves a trip, a new travel trailer, and new wedding bands… they’re all lovely, but not necessary. Gifts are nice and are something to look back on to identify the year. But one of my favorite celebrations was a picnic in the back of a minivan in a parking lot because it was raining outside. I don’t remember what we had to eat. No wine was involved because we couldn’t afford it. But we were alone (free of children) and happy.

On the day we got married, my dad told me something I’ve been passing on to other couples on their wedding day. It was something I wish he’d told me before I married the wrong guy when I was younger. After telling me he thought Tim was a good man and the right one for me he said, “Love isn’t something you fall into. It takes a lot of hard work to keep a marriage together.”

And then there was my own discovery. Love isn’t a 50/50 split. When you split everything 50/50 that actually means you give ONLY 50% and you keep 50% to yourself. But that leaves 50% of you "unfilled". Nope, a relationship works if you each always give 100%. It might seem like giving 100% leaves you with nothing. But remember...that your partner gives 100% to fill you up.

Anniversaries come by being ALL IN.

About Angi-
Where honor and danger collide with love" is more than a tag line. When the house is quiet, she plots ways to engage her readers with complex story lines, throwing her hero and heroine into conflicting situations requiring sacrifice. Alone their situations seem impossible...but then the one person they can love fights for that 'happily ever after' to share with them. ANGI MORGAN is a USA Today and Publisher's Weekly bestselling author. Her work has finaled in the Romantic Times First Series Book, the Booksellers' Best First Book, the Booksellers' Best Series Romantic Suspense, the Gayle Wilson Award of Excellence, the Carolyn Readers Choice Award and the Daphne du Maurier. An 11th generation Texan, Angi utilizes her strong heritage to create passionate characters in actual Texas locations who are willing to risk everything.

11 comments:

  1. ALL IN!! So true! Beautiful story, Angi, thanks for sharing!

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  2. YES and nowadays so many do less than the 50% and I believe why so many marriages fail!

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  4. Happy 30th, Angi! Thank you for the feel-good blog. And I totally agree, it is hard work. My father's advice about marriage--never talk about religion or politics. My father-in-law's--never hang wall paper with your wife! Enjoy your trip!

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    1. Oh my !! I can admit that Tim and I hung wallpaper together once and only once. We nearly divorced. So your father-in-law gave you great advice. Don't ever hang wallpaper with someone you want to stay friends with!!

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  5. Beautifully said! Happy Anniversary, Angi and Tim!

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  6. Wow and Happy 30th Anniversary to you and Tim! I wish you many more! Peggy Clayton

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