Stories of the Heart- July 17, 2019
In a time when it seems the world is nothing but name-calling, finger-pointing and bad vibes, its refreshing to hear the GOOD that still exists. For that, and these stories shared by some very dear and talented people, I am truly grateful and blessed!
A special reminder by a very special lady! Angi is a spitfire woman with a heart of gold. I am proud to call her friend. Enjoy!
#doesaheartgood
Amanda McIntyre
ANNIVERSARIES
~ MAKE ‘EM SPECIAL
by Angi Morgan
Today Tim and I are celebrating our 30th Anniversary. I’ll say ‘thank you’ now to anyone who congratulates us. Why? We’re on a train. It’s something that we’ve both wanted to do for a while. I have to admit that most years we’re not together on our anniversary. Some years there weren’t any gifts or even cards exchanged.
THIS
milestone event though…we’ve given ourselves a trip, a new travel trailer, and new
wedding bands… they’re all lovely, but not necessary. Gifts are nice and are
something to look back on to identify the year. But one of my favorite celebrations was a
picnic in the back of a minivan in a parking lot because it was raining
outside. I don’t remember what we had to eat. No wine was involved because we
couldn’t afford it. But we were alone (free of children) and happy.
On the day
we got married, my dad told me something I’ve been passing on to other couples
on their wedding day. It was something I wish he’d told me before I married the
wrong guy when I was younger. After telling me he thought Tim was a good man
and the right one for me he said, “Love isn’t something you fall into. It takes
a lot of hard work to keep a marriage together.”
And then
there was my own discovery. Love isn’t a 50/50 split. When you split everything
50/50 that actually means you give ONLY 50% and you keep 50% to yourself. But that leaves 50% of you "unfilled". Nope,
a relationship works if you each always give 100%. It might seem like giving 100% leaves you with nothing. But remember...that your partner gives 100% to fill you up.
Anniversaries
come by being ALL IN.
About Angi-
Where honor and danger collide with love" is more than a tag line. When the house is quiet, she plots ways to engage her readers with complex story lines, throwing her hero and heroine into conflicting situations requiring sacrifice. Alone their situations seem impossible...but then the one person they can love fights for that 'happily ever after' to share with them. ANGI MORGAN is a USA Today and Publisher's Weekly bestselling author. Her work has finaled in the Romantic Times First Series Book, the Booksellers' Best First Book, the Booksellers' Best Series Romantic Suspense, the Gayle Wilson Award of Excellence, the Carolyn Readers Choice Award and the Daphne du Maurier. An 11th generation Texan, Angi utilizes her strong heritage to create passionate characters in actual Texas locations who are willing to risk everything.
Where honor and danger collide with love" is more than a tag line. When the house is quiet, she plots ways to engage her readers with complex story lines, throwing her hero and heroine into conflicting situations requiring sacrifice. Alone their situations seem impossible...but then the one person they can love fights for that 'happily ever after' to share with them. ANGI MORGAN is a USA Today and Publisher's Weekly bestselling author. Her work has finaled in the Romantic Times First Series Book, the Booksellers' Best First Book, the Booksellers' Best Series Romantic Suspense, the Gayle Wilson Award of Excellence, the Carolyn Readers Choice Award and the Daphne du Maurier. An 11th generation Texan, Angi utilizes her strong heritage to create passionate characters in actual Texas locations who are willing to risk everything.
ALL IN!! So true! Beautiful story, Angi, thanks for sharing!
ReplyDeleteThanks for asking me.
DeleteYES and nowadays so many do less than the 50% and I believe why so many marriages fail!
ReplyDeleteAgreed.
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ReplyDeleteHappy 30th, Angi! Thank you for the feel-good blog. And I totally agree, it is hard work. My father's advice about marriage--never talk about religion or politics. My father-in-law's--never hang wall paper with your wife! Enjoy your trip!
ReplyDeleteOh my !! I can admit that Tim and I hung wallpaper together once and only once. We nearly divorced. So your father-in-law gave you great advice. Don't ever hang wallpaper with someone you want to stay friends with!!
DeleteBeautifully said! Happy Anniversary, Angi and Tim!
ReplyDeleteThank you Jean !
DeleteWow and Happy 30th Anniversary to you and Tim! I wish you many more! Peggy Clayton
ReplyDeleteThanks so much Peggy.
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